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Age Gaps and Potty Training

Just a few days ago it was 60 degrees outside.  Today I woke up to 16 inches of snow in the front yard. In the spirit of enjoying the...

My Image is not Your Image

I was reading a book on anthropologists and archeologists (it was a lot more lighthearted than that sounds) and there was a paragraph...

The Flowers Were On Sale

My husband has freely admitted to me that he buys my flowers from the clearance bucket at the grocery store. Okay, let me preface that by...

Don’t Forget The Cupcakes

Today was Bring a Friend to Soccer day. In typical fashion, I forgot. I feel bad. Though he’s not the only one out there without a...

What my father taught me was subtle

What a father teaches a child is usually subtle. Sure, to most of us the first things that come to mind are, the value of a dollar, hard...

Messy, Oh So Messy

Life is messy. Let’s admit that right now. Let’s wallow in it for a few minutes. Let’s remember all the strewn clothes we haven’t picked...

A Shoulder For You

We grieve with you. We grieve with you because we love you. Not because we pretend to know your breaking heart. Not because we will...

To Read, To Live

The books are neatly stacked so the bindings always face the same way.  I can, at a glance, reach for a heart warming tale of love and...

To Dance With Eyes Closed

Not the light and fluffy dance she usually performs. Not cotton candy or just baked meringue. This was something else. It came from...

Proactively You

Dear Reader Friend, “The life you want is out there.  You just have to make sure you know what that life is…and proactively live it....

Does It Have To Spark To Work?

We all say that the “spark” has to be there before we commit.  We all make a big deal about the “it” factor and do we “mesh” and “click”....

I Am Okay With That

Why I feel like an inferior model of “mommy homemaker”: 1. I do not know 10 ways to use vinegar in every day cleaning. 2. I use my cast...

Security Blankets For Mommies and Daddies

We find it difficult, in our cynical and clouded minds to remember, sometimes, what it’s like to believe unconditionally. Do you remember...

(Not) Dealing With Transition

The dictionary defines Transition as “Passage from one form, state, style, or place to another.” By that definition, each of us has...

To Be Crafty Or Not To Be

Yesterday I decided the kids and I were going to do a craft together. This is not my natural instinct so it takes some work and a mental...

The Art of Sympathy

The hardest thing to do is stand by and watch someone else’s pain. Sure, our own pain is difficult enough. We feel it inside us after...

Did Someone Say Run?

Most of you already know this about me. I don’t like sports! I’ve never been a natural athlete. When all the children were out playing...

What Mom Taught Me

Things I learned from my mother, the short version: 1. Being polite and helping someone out are more important than smiling at every one...

Great Expectations

Have you noticed that we come down harder on those for whom we have higher expectations? Whether it be a friend, co-worker, child or...

The Relevance and Irrelevance of Words

Remember the old taunt, ‘sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me,’ I wonder if kids recite it anymore? I...

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