Life Changes (You)
I think at any given time, we are surrounded by people, whether they be close friends, acquaintances, family members, or even ourselves,...
Santa is a big heartbreaker!
We maintain the right for any other child to believe in Santa. I lecture the children almost daily during the Christmas season about not...
Bubble Wrapping My Kids
My newest mom-title is Shield. I remember as a child hearing my parents whisper things, knowing there were always discussions that did...
Butting In and Cookie Exchanges
Right now, my husband is on his way to a cookie exchange. He took our four year old daughter with him. As I am not feeling well and our...
Adjustments At Bedtime
After three years of sleeping in the same room, tonight my children will sleep apart for the first time. For a while now they’ve each...
Enough Is Enough
I heard a quote which was attributed to Joseph Heller, author of Catch 22, “I’ve got something he can never have…the knowledge that I’ve...
Bestowing Choice
Let me take a moment to dust off my soapbox, pull out my handkerchief, wipe the smudges from the last time I stepped on it. I will...
Hurdle Racing For Beginners
Life isn’t a miracle; it is the starting line to a hurdle race. You look in front of you and if you are fortunate you are prepared for...
A Life Told In Miles
We bought our 1996 Jeep Cherokee from my parents soon after college graduation. It was more a favor on my parents part than because they...
Throwing a Fabulous Party, Being Family
Last weekend my cousin and I threw a baby shower for my sister. This is not new to us. We throw parties together on what now seems like...
Small Visitors of the Creepy Crawly Kind
And then today, as I stood blow drying my hair, innocently unaware that my daughter had popped into my bathroom, I felt a tap on my leg....
Oh, For Longing.
There is longing in each of us. It takes many forms. Gets us moving forward or standing still, frozen by its hopelessness. Longing can...
Deceptively Picture Perfect
Our last Christmas card is a series of photos of our family in various states of disarray. In front of the camera, as hard as I tried to...
More on Death, But This Time There’s a Happy Ending
Last night, as we sat down for our sundown worship, I asked the kids what story they wanted to hear. They sat there thinking for a...
Knowing Things May Be Overrated
It’s not that I’m not attempting to keep current, I read the papers. I try to use my brain for more than just meal planning. And I...
Love AND The Ten Commandments
But I took the opportunity to make it a teaching moment. I said that she was right, lying is bad. “God even says so in the Bible. He...
To My Husband, On Father’s Day
I’m a mother. I stay home, take care of my kids, feed my family, wash the clothes…you get the idea. I’m a homemaker. I don’t always...
A Child’s Empathy
That’s true empathy, to suffer alongside someone and still want to comfort them. I need a lesson in this. I need to remember this sweet...
Sharing and Loving It
Even so, I was determined not to hear that sound in my house. I dreaded it above most every other bad habit that kids pick up along the...

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