Life Changes (You)
I think at any given time, we are surrounded by people, whether they be close friends, acquaintances, family members, or even ourselves,...
Santa is a big heartbreaker!
We maintain the right for any other child to believe in Santa. Â I lecture the children almost daily during the Christmas season about not...
Bubble Wrapping My Kids
My newest mom-title is Shield. Â I remember as a child hearing my parents whisper things, knowing there were always discussions that did...
Butting In and Cookie Exchanges
Right now, my husband is on his way to a cookie exchange. Â He took our four year old daughter with him. Â As I am not feeling well and our...
Adjustments At Bedtime
After three years of sleeping in the same room, tonight my children will sleep apart for the first time.  For a while now they’ve each...
Enough Is Enough
I heard a quote which was attributed to Joseph Heller, author of Catch 22, “I’ve got something he can never have…the knowledge that I’ve...
Bestowing Choice
Let me take a moment to dust off my soapbox, pull out my handkerchief, wipe the smudges from the last time I stepped on it. Â I will...
Hurdle Racing For Beginners
Life isn’t a miracle; it is the starting line to a hurdle race.  You look in front of you and if you are fortunate you are prepared for...
A Life Told In Miles
We bought our 1996 Jeep Cherokee from my parents soon after college graduation. Â It was more a favor on my parents part than because they...
Throwing a Fabulous Party, Being Family
Last weekend my cousin and I threw a baby shower for my sister. Â This is not new to us. Â We throw parties together on what now seems like...
Small Visitors of the Creepy Crawly Kind
And then today, as I stood blow drying my hair, innocently unaware that my daughter had popped into my bathroom, I felt a tap on my leg....
Oh, For Longing.
There is longing in each of us. Â It takes many forms. Â Gets us moving forward or standing still, frozen by its hopelessness. Â Longing can...
Deceptively Picture Perfect
Our last Christmas card is a series of photos of our family in various states of disarray. Â In front of the camera, as hard as I tried to...
More on Death, But This Time There’s a Happy Ending
Last night, as we sat down for our sundown worship, I asked the kids what story they wanted to hear. They sat there thinking for a...
Knowing Things May Be Overrated
It’s not that I’m not attempting to keep current, I read the papers. I try to use my brain for more than just meal planning. And I...
Love AND The Ten Commandments
But I took the opportunity to make it a teaching moment. I said that she was right, lying is bad. “God even says so in the Bible. He...
To My Husband, On Father’s Day
I’m a mother. I stay home, take care of my kids, feed my family, wash the clothes…you get the idea. I’m a homemaker. I don’t always...
A Child’s Empathy
That’s true empathy, to suffer alongside someone and still want to comfort them. I need a lesson in this. I need to remember this sweet...
Sharing and Loving It
Even so, I was determined not to hear that sound in my house. I dreaded it above most every other bad habit that kids pick up along the...

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